Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Binkie. Spring. Weight Loss. Cave Kid.

So this is one of those weeks where I have a few things going on, and I'm going to lump it into one post here!

Bye-Bye Binkie
We have a big weekend coming up. It will go down in history as "The weekend we rid Julianna of the Binkie!" {hopefully}. This child loves her Binkie. She is addicted to it. At 21 months, we feel it is starting to affect her speech possibly... and not to mention the obvious, she's just getting too old (in my opinion). She (we) need to stop being so dependent on it. I will be the first to admit, we created this mess. We never limited her at all - and now we are paying dearly. I am so terrified to take it away but we think it's the right time. It will be a rough couple of days, but I think in the end, it will be worth it! I have always heard it is more of a crutch for mommy & daddy (safety net) and 'they' might be right. We might suffer worse than her! I'll keep you all updated. Wish us luck. We are planning a full weekend of total distractions to get her mind off the "B: word!

Spring is here (sort of) 
I know it's not spring technically. But Mother Nature clearly has other plans. This week, we are supposed to hit 68 degrees. In March. I'll take it. I see Robins and Cardinals all over. I guess no one told them it's still Winter. This weekend, the clocks are getting pushed ahead, and to me that means Spring is here too! I love getting out of work and having a few hours of daylight. Yeah baby!  Spring training baseball has started. This also signifies spring in a huge way for me! Go Yankees.

Weight Loss Update
So I mentioned a while back, around the New Year that my husband and I were going to start eating better and following Weight Watchers. Well, it is now the beginning of March and I have lost 14 lbs. This is a big accomplishment for me. I still have a long. way. to. go.    But - so far so good. My husband is also doing very well with his weight loss. We are feeding off each other - and are each other's support system. That helps sooo much! If I keep going this way, I should be down 30 by summer. Yeeehawww. Certainly not even close to bikini weight (which I already have accepted that I will never put one on again as long as I live)... but it will give me the courage to go to the pool/beach and not feel humiliated by how I look, and actually not be mortified out in public thinking everyone is staring at me wondering why the fat chick is eating ice cream.

Happiest Toddler on the Block: (How to Eliminate Tantrums and Raise a Patient, Respectful, and Cooperative One- to Four-Year-Old)
I just started reading the "Happiest Toddler on the Block" book. I really liked "Happiest Baby on the Block" when Julianna was an infant. It helped us get through that infamous "witching hour" that most babies go through. So now that Julianna is 21 (almost 22) months old... she is hitting that stage where it's so up & down... hot & cold all the time. Happy one minute, whiny and end of the world the next minute. Well, you know how it is.

Overall, I feel Julianna is a pretty happy kid - but let's face it, she is of "that age" where things can become difficult very fast. This book so far is giving me some great ideas & ways to handle those "difficult" times (since I am pretty much clueless). I am not one of those people that raised 15 brothers & sisters or nieces & nephews... I came into parenthood clueless. And yes, I have learned a lot, but for me, I need textbook guidance on some things. I am a huge researcher. I'll let you know how it's going.

So far, my favorite line in the beginning of the book is this: "Toddlers aren't mini-adults, or even mini-big kids. They're more like uncivilized cave-kids."  Now that's classic. And heck yeah, it fits. So anyway, this book then goes on to guide you on how to deal with your cave kid. I even nick-named Julianna: Cave Kid. I like it.


Julianna (cave kid) loves the park. I can't wait until it gets warmer so we can go after work every night! 
She is very un-cave-kid-like outdoors. I think she gets bored inside our teeny little house. Hell, I know I do!


Running at the park. Soon we can go without coats hopefully! 


I love this Mickey Mouse shirt we got for her at Target. It has a sequin bow-tie. I mean, really, how cute can you get?!


Mmmmm Cheerios. 


Julianna loves to sit on top of our ottomans and eat her Cheerios in the morning... while watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse (when Mommy & Daddy get ready for work). 


 Steal of the Century. I bought this tunnel/tent combo set at Kohls the other day for 7.99 on clearance. (And an additional 20% off and 15% off! It was almost free!). Julianna was weary of the tunnel at first because she did not know what to do... but then she figured out she had to climb through it. She only did it once, but we plan on breaking this out this weekend and setting up the tent! Can't wait! 

This is what it looks like: 






Saturday, March 3, 2012

Eleven ... Once' ... Onze ... Undici ...Elva

Eleven. For those of you (like me) that require Google Translator to know what those words are up there in my title, they are the word "Eleven" translated into Spanish, French, Italian and Swedish.

Why Eleven? 
I got tagged by Rachel over at "In my Life, I love you More" - I need to answer 11 questions, create 11 new questions and tag some friends, and mention 11 random things about myself. Phewww. That's a lot. I better get going on this for the weekend!  This is pretty cool, and since I took zero pictures for my Project 52 this week, I will post this as a nice change-up...

There are 6 rules:
1. Post these rules.
2. Post a photo of yourself & 11 random things about yourself.
3. Answer the 11 questions set for you in the original post.
4. Create 11 new questions and tag people to answer them.
5. Go to their blog and tell them you've tagged them.
6. No saying, "If you are reading this, you're tagged."


11 Random things about me
  1. My daughter and my husband complete my life (yeah, I know that is sooo Jerry McGuire, but too bad, it's true!)
  2. I am the world's biggest NY Yankees fan. I live for baseball season & don't miss a game! 
  3. I am a computer & tech gadget geek. (including my blackberry which I can't live without!) 
  4. I love my hair 
  5. Can't live without my Clinique moisturizer and MAC Lip gloss. 
  6. I'm a Law & Order junky. The original & SVU. 
  7. I will NEVER drive a Mini-van. Never. Ever. Never. . 
  8. I have lived in NJ for almost all of my 41 years. 
  9. My favorite food - Italian anything. 
  10. My dream job (if money were not a concern) would be either a Ski Instructor or Bird Rehabilitation (Ornithologist). Or perhaps a newborn photographer. hehe.
  11. I used to hate kids. I never wanted kids. I changed my mind after I got married and still wasn't convinced it was for me until I actually gave birth. I "used to be" one of "those" that would give screaming kids mother's a dirty look in the store or restaurant. Well - Kharma got my ass back (in a good way) LOL. Because now I love kids. I love my own more than anything in the world (goes without saying), and I love all other babies & children. It's like I'm this new improved model of what used to be Skye! I now am sympathetic to that screaming child's mom (or dad) in the store or restaurant. AND if anyone gives them or me with my kid, a dirty look, I shoot the look right back and then say out loud  "If you don't want screaming kids, then don't come to a family restaurant". Talk about doing a turnaround! haha! I can honestly say, I wish I did not wait so long to have my daughter. I wish I would have done it sooner. I now know if we never had her, that I would have been missing out on the absolute best thing in my entire life. I would have never felt that joy & unimaginable passion that takes over your heart & soul as a parent. 
Well #11 was kinda long- sorry! 


11 Questions from Rachel to me: 

1. If you could choose one food that you could eat for the rest of your life with reckless abandon and never gain an ounce from it, what would it be? 
Pizza.

2. What is the most memorable book you’ve ever read? (Alternately, which book that you’ve read has made the biggest impact on your life?) I read this book after I had Julianna and it broke my heart. I can't imagine any father having to go through this kind of loss. But the ending of the book, and how it turned out is very incredible. Sad book but it was a fabulous read since it was a true story - Two Kisses For Maddie - by Matt Logelin. 
I am going to add a 2nd book that changed me earlier in life. This was my favorite book from my pre-teen  years- I still remember it as being the greatest book and I can't wait for my daughter to reach the age where she can enjoy this book as I did - Are you there God, It's me Margaret -  by Judy Bloom. 

3. What is your favorite vacation you’ve ever taken? My 11 day trip to St Lucia for our honeymoon. Hands down. Here is my post with pictures about it: Honeymoon

4. What is your favorite article of clothing that you own? (Bonus points for posting a picture of you wearing it!) Hmmm. I can't say I have a favorite article of clothing b/c I don't care for the way I look in anything. Oh wait, I know, It's my Yankees ball cap!! :)  And here is my bonus picture: 
















5. What blogger that you’ve never met do you think would be your BFF in real life and why? Tough choice because I love so many of my bloggy friends out there! But I would say, Karli from the Bonnie 5! She's cool peeps! We've had some fun offline conversations. 

6. What is the next trip you plan to take? Charleston, SC 

7. If you could spend the day with one person, living or dead, who would it be? Bill Gates. 

8. Have you ever eaten a bug, by accident or on purpose? Probably 

9. What is your favorite holiday? Christmas. Hands down. 

10. What is one quote that you find inspiring or motivating? Not sure, I am not one of those quote people. I don't know one good quote I can think of. 

11. Where do you do most of your shopping (besides Costco :)? Kohls, Children's place, Amazon.com


Here are my 11 Questions for my tagged friends

  1. When did you last step outside? What were you doing?
  2. What is the last film you saw?
  3. What is the last thing you downloaded onto your computer?
  4. If you could change one thing about the world, regardless of guilt or politics, what would you do?
  5. What was the last thing you bought?
  6. Seen anything weird lately?
  7. What's under your bed?
  8. What are some of the different jobs that you have had in your life?
  9. What's your favorite indulgence? 
  10. Favorite sports team? 
  11. Do you collect anything? 

And lost but not least... Here are my tagged friends (Something about this makes me feel 12 years old! HAHA!) 

Kimberly @ Kimberly's Korner
Karli @ The Bonnie 5
Amber @ Nater Tot 

Of course I have to include one shot of my girly





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